time isn't a straight line it's all bumpy wumpy.

There are moments in your life that make you and set the course of who you’re going to be. Sometimes they’re little, subtle moments. Sometimes they’re big moments that you never saw coming. No one asks for their life to change, but it does. It’s what you do afterwards that counts. That’s when you find out who you are.

- Buffy the Vampire Slayer (via aplacetobelostinbeauty)